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My daughter's boyfriend is accusing her of being unfaithful, because of vaginal looseness. She is not unfaithful to him, nor has she ever had children. She did have an abortion a year ago. What could cause this? Wishing he would go away hasn't worked! but his false accusations are killing her self-esteem.
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Boyfriends/husbands in securties are usually just a branch of more in depth problems than he/she is not willing to axknowledge or voice. To my knowledge vaginal looseness is not so uncommon. I have suffered the same from time to time. I have found that the same exercise you use for preparing for child birth (tightening and loosening your vaginal muscles) helps. Its descrete and can be done at anytime.
Obviiously, you wishing he would go away may not be what your daughter wants at this time. Your motherly protection is admired although may not be appreciated...I hope your daughter realizes that her self esteem or worth is not measured by others, but how she feels about herself. Support and positive influences works wonders and if she surrounds herself with these she will find that she has this one life and to not settle for those who are not positive influences in her life and that she is worthy and deserves the best. Be true to herself and the rest WILL follow. Love and peace...
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