I have become intimate again after many years of abstaining, and am experiencing frequent urination, leading me to believe I have a uti. This is not something I have experienced in the past when I was sexually active and it has me a little concerned. I've also experiencing tenderness and an itch around my clitoris , which is red. I don't know if these are signs of my body just not use to having sex for so long and I'm a little raw now or if these are ann indication of something more serious. Any light that could be shed I would be so thankful for.